YOU KNOW THE ONE I'M TALKING ABOUT, RIGHT?
It's that relationship that's awesome and amazing and great in the good times and then in the bad times things absolutely self destruct and instantaneously they turn on you and take out all their stress on you. The worst part from, at least in my world, is that since they're your friends they know exactly how to tear you down.
I honestly wish I could give my no-existent readership some advice on the subject, but honestly there is no advice to give. These people will just continue to tear you down and then pretend it's not their fault. I guess you could pull away from them that's always an interesting option but the very sad an lonely truth is that "that one relationship" is not singular. "That one relationship" will happen far more often then any lasting or healthy connection especially in today's shallow society.
The best strategy is just to duck and remember its just them lashing out due to their own problems, this doesn't mean that every time that person freaks it isn't your fault, if you did something own up.
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